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01Quit Porn and Masturbation

All of it →
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When the urge hits

Flee. Don't argue with it.

You can't win an argument with a lustful thought. Get up and go do something: walk, run, pushups, the gym, the dishes, the laundry, a hobby. I also pray.

From the founder

I built the app I wish I'd had.

Years after I started writing here, I built SEVER: a quit-porn app for the exact moment an urge hits. I built it for the first brutal weeks, and for the third week, when it feels like you're in control.

  • Streak, daily check-ins and an honest relapse log, free to start
  • Premium adds an app blocker, Site Shield and the Fight the Urge tools
  • On iPhone and Android

I built it, so I'm not neutral about it.

See what SEVER does

02Discipline, Confidence and Self-Mastery

All discipline →

03Faith, Prayer and Purity

All faith →

04Loneliness and Being Happy Alone

All alone →
Stefan M.
Porn-free since 2021 ·1,977 days

From the founder

I'm Stefan. This is what worked for me.

I've beaten addiction and unhealthy habits, lost 110 pounds, and I've been porn-free since 2021. I'm an Orthodox Christian, and prayer is part of how I fight. I write what I wish someone had told me: practical steps, no fluff.

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